Touch the Hot Stove! Love the Pain!

Pain

Finding the lessons in pain can be very difficult, especially when in the middle of it.  I know that I can and do learn from the hardships I go through.  This happens because I’m pushing myself in some way.  The pain is a feedback mechanism.  It is like a child …

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Purpose Needs a Plan and Action

Find your purpose and everything will follow… but only if you take action.  Finding purpose and a meaning to life is a wonderful thing.  It has been necessary for me to feel that I know where I want to go in life.  A new purpose doesn’t just magically become fulfilled …

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Life Statement

Life Statement

Personal growth is fed with pain but bears fruit from love.  Both are needed for growth to happen and both are of value.  Nobody looks for pain or hardship in their lives but there is no avoiding it either.  We can fight against it when it happens or we can …

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Hard Conversations Rule

The harder the conversion the more important it is to have it.  I had an experience in the past week with a friend which underlines this.  She and I had an issue between us which needed to be addressed but which was also very awkward to talk about.  I spent …

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Disruption is Great!

Disruption “officially” defined: to cause (something) to be unable to continue in the normal way : to interrupt the normal progress or activity of (something).” Merriam-Webster   Why would anyone want disruption?  Because the “normal” path they are on is actually counterproductive and it doesn’t feed their soul.  I’ve been …

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